Friday, May 31, 2013

Kids of Unbalanced Marriages

By Saleem Rana


Hellen Chen is an international workshop facilitator on marriage and family issues. She is also the author of "The Matchmaker of the Century." She spoke to Lon Woodbury on L.A. Talk Radio about the children of unbalanced marriages. The conversation focused on how mothers and fathers could produce a stable marriage and a balanced relationship at work, in the family and as a couple.

About Hellen Chen

Hellen Chen from Los Angeles, California, is an international speaker, best-selling author and business consultant and relationship expert. She has been invited to give her advice on marriages on numerous TV, radio, magazine and newspapers interviews in the USA and many Asian countries.

Her book on partnerships "The Matchmaker of the Century" which was released on Barnes and Noble has become a bestseller. She has actually written 19 books on a wide array of relationship topics, including marriage, parenting, and even professional relationships in a job. Presently, she is researching and writing her 20th book.

What Happens to Children of Unbalanced Marriages?

In raising emotionally healthy children, Chen explains the important roles parents play in talking to their children in an open and honest way about issues related to the marriage, the family, and even work related stress and financial challenges.

The best parents are those without real secrets, parents who truly listen to their kids and take their concerns seriously. Each parent should work at developing a healthy and balanced relationship with their partner if they intend to raise emotionally healthy and balanced children.

Woodbury asked about what happens when parents themselves are out of harmony with each other. Chen observed that children of parents with unbalanced marriages all too often grow up into unbalanced young people.

When children act out in later years, the root cause can be traced to early childhood. They indulge in a variety of addictions to mask their inner pain-drugs, smoking, alcohol, overeating, and so on. When they become parents themselves, they fail to raise balanced children. In this way, society itself is negatively impacted.

This discussion raised questions about exactly how parents can stay away from bringing up unbalanced youngsters. Chen said that Moms and Dads needed to eat healthy and feed their kids healthy and balanced foods because a lot of problems came up from bad diet habits like excessive glucose. Furthermore, parents should communicate to their kids on a regular basis and let them know how they could be contacted in an emergency when Moms and Dads were at work. Regrettably, oftentimes busy, hard-working Moms and Dads would be entirely unavailable when they left your home, and supply little life guidance.

In summary, children of unbalanced marriages came to be inefficient parents themselves, and all this grief could be avoided if mothers and fathers got along with their children and made themselves more available.




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